Comment 320 for bug 160311

I recently installed xubuntu 12.04 and the 1px thing makes it impossible for me. I've always had problems with window borders, I'm spazzy with the mouse, but until now I've always been able to configure it larger.
But with 12.04, I've tried everything. I've changed the metacity-theme-1.xml file, somebody told me the size was based on the actual png image, so I changed all of those. Others have said try a different theme. I've done that plenty too. I'm a programmer, I get it, I'm willing to do whatever, but how can I actually go about changing the border width? I don't need you guys to change the defaults or make a pretty UI to make it configurable (though that would be nice) just tell me the byte offset in what file I need to make it bigger and I will be happy to do it myself, but nothing I do works. Help?